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What should you do if someone threatens to upload your intimate pictures to the internet?

What should you do if someone threatens to upload your intimate pictures to the internet

Someone is going to post intimate videos of me online, what can I do

The digital age has brought unprecedented conveniences but also new threats. One such menace is the illicit distribution of intimate images or 'revenge porn'. When faced with such a threat, you may feel an array of emotions from embarrassment to fear. Let's break down how to navigate this situation step by step.

Table of content

Acknowledging your situation: am I being blackmailed?

Why are they doing this? The complex motivations behind blackmail

I feel trapped; is there a way out from a blackmail situation?

What help is available for me if I'm threatened that my intimate images will be posted online?

I am threatened that my intimate videos will be posted online, should I go to the police? The risks and realities

I am an individual who is in the public eye and I'm worried about PR implications of my intimate images published online

What if my intimate images are already online? Immediate steps and legal remedies

What if I initially consented to the publication of my intimate images and videos online but later on changed my mind?


Acknowledging your situation: am I being blackmailed?

The simple answer is yes; if someone is threatening to disclose intimate images or videos of you without your explicit permission, you're a victim of blackmail. The legal systems in most countries view threats to post intimate images online as a crime, with penalties ranging from fines to imprisonment for the perpetrator.

Acknowledging this fact not only helps emotionally but can also arm you with the confidence to actively address the issue. Awareness is empowerment, and this is the first step in regaining control over the situation. Recognising that you're being blackmailed is the first crucial step in dealing with the problem, but it's often a step that's laden with emotional and cognitive barriers.

Victims of revenge frequently find it hard to label what's happening to them as blackmail. There are several reasons for this difficulty, ranging from emotional ties with the perpetrator to self-blame or a lack of awareness about the legal definitions involved.

Emotional complexity and familiarity with the extortionist

In many cases, the person making threats may be someone the victim knows or once trusted—like an ex-partner. This familiarity can blur the lines, making the blackmail feel like a "natural" extension of a relationship that's gone sour, rather than a criminal act. Sometimes, the emotional complexity can be overwhelming, and acknowledging the situation as blackmail might feel like a betrayal of whatever relationship used to exist.

Self-blame and "deserved consequences"

Another common barrier to acknowledgement is the feeling of self-blame or guilt. Some victims feel that they "deserve" the threats due to their own actions—perhaps they shared intimate images willingly at some point, or engaged in behaviour they now regret. This sense of culpability can deter victims from labelling the act as blackmail and seeking help.

Misconceptions and confusions

Additionally, many people are not aware of the legal boundaries and may not understand that what's happening to them is, in fact, blackmail. They might classify it as revenge porn, harassment, or the fallout of a failed relationship. While all these situations are concerning, not recognising the issue as blackmail can hinder you from taking specific legal actions tailored to address it.

Acknowledging the situation as blackmail is not just an emotional realisation but a legal and tactical one. Once you accept that you're being blackmailed, you unlock a suite of legal tools and resources that can help you fight back. From considering injunctions to understanding the dynamics of professional extortionists, acknowledging the problem is your first step towards resolving it effectively.

Why are they doing this? The complex motivations behind blackmail

Understanding why someone is threatening to upload your intimate images or videos can be complex, as motivations can vary widely. However, having an idea of what drives someone to commit such an act can inform your approach to dealing with the situation effectively.

Emotional Hurt

Sometimes, the perpetrator is someone you know, such as a former partner, who feels emotionally hurt and seeks a way to vent their feelings or get revenge. Their threat to share intimate images might be a misguided attempt to regain some emotional control after feeling rejected or betrayed.

Low Self-Esteem

People with low self-esteem may engage in such behaviour to feel better about themselves temporarily. By putting someone else in a compromising situation, they might experience a fleeting sense of superiority or worth.

Power Trip

For some, the act of threatening someone this way can induce a sense of power and control. They relish the ability to make someone else feel vulnerable or anxious, and it feeds their ego to think they can manipulate someone else's life in such a significant way.

Mental Health Issues

In some instances, the person threatening to upload your images may have underlying mental health issues that drive their actions. While this is not an excuse for their behaviour, understanding this possibility could influence how you handle the situation.

Professional Extortionists

As previously discussed, some individuals or groups make a living out of blackmail. These professional extortionists are often well-versed in the art of manipulation and intimidation, and their primary aim is financial gain. Their tactics are calculated, leveraging your vulnerabilities to make a profit.

Organised Criminal Gangs

These are groups of professional extortionists that operate on a larger scale, often employing advanced technology to capture and disseminate material. They may have networks that stretch across countries, and their motivations could range from financial gain to darker, more nefarious objectives.


Lastly, some people may stumble upon an opportunity and, without a premeditated plan, decide to exploit someone else's vulnerability. Whether for financial gain or a temporary thrill, these individuals may not have initially set out to blackmail someone but seize the chance when it presents itself. By understanding the motivations behind the threats, you can better tailor your response. Whether you're dealing with an individual driven by emotional hurt or professional extortionists seeking financial gain, your counteractions should be adjusted accordingly to address the unique complexities of your situation.

I feel trapped; is there a way out from a blackmail situation?

When you're being blackmailed, especially with something as deeply personal as intimate images or videos, it's completely normal to feel trapped, isolated, and overwhelmed. The emotional toll of being in such a vulnerable position can cloud your judgement and make you feel like there's no escape route. But rest assured, there's almost always a way out.

The feeling of being trapped often originates from a complicated emotional landscape. You might feel you're cornered due to the intimidating nature of the threats, the personal connection with the perpetrator, or simply the emotional toll it takes to face the situation head-on. It’s crucial to remember that the feeling of entrapment is often a part of the blackmailer’s strategy, aiming to exploit your emotional vulnerability for their gain.

What help is available for me if I'm threatened that my intimate images will be posted online?

The first and most important step in extricating yourself from this emotional quagmire is to consult someone who can provide expert advice tailored to your specific situation. This expert could be a police officer, a counsellor experienced in dealing with blackmail situations, or, ideally, a legal professional with experience in this field. Why a legal professional? Because while law enforcement agencies do their best to assist, there are limitations to what they can offer.

For one, their involvement could risk wider exposure of your personal situation, especially if you're a public figure. Legal professionals, particularly those from specialised, small law firms, not only understand the laws around blackmail but also can handle the case with more personalised attention and confidentiality. They can approach the situation from both a legal and public relations perspective, offering a more comprehensive solution.

The situation you're in is uniquely yours, but aspects of it will be familiar to professionals who have handled similar cases. They might spot elements or solutions that you hadn't considered. Hence, it could also be beneficial to get a second opinion, whether it's from another legal expert or a police officer you trust.

I am threatened that my intimate videos will be posted online, should I go to the police? The risks and realities

Deciding whether to involve the police is a complex decision that goes beyond the immediate threat. While police involvement can be effective in criminal matters, there are drawbacks. Law enforcement agencies will usually require complete access to your personal communications. Moreover, there's the risk of information leaking, either intentionally or unintentionally, within the precinct or even to the media. Although protocols for confidentiality are in place, human error or indiscretion remains a real concern.

If you are a person in the public eye, like a footballer or a TV presenter, even a hint of such an investigation could lead to damaging speculation, even if the media doesn't explicitly name you. These worlds are small, and once a rumour starts, it can be damaging both personally and professionally.

The decision to involve the police comes with several considerations. If you're a well-known public figure, be prepared for potential media coverage. Additionally, be aware that police will likely require full disclosure of all interactions between you and the blackmailer, which could include revealing sensitive information.

However, they can act swiftly and utilise resources such as IP tracing to locate the perpetrator. Your privacy concerns are valid. Law enforcement agencies will likely require comprehensive access to your communications. Before taking this step, consult your legal advisor to understand how to protect your privacy during the investigation.

I am an individual who is in the public eye and I'm worried about PR implications of my intimate images published online

In such delicate situations, retaining a specialised law firm that can also manage the PR aspect of your case may be beneficial. Law firms are bound by stringent client confidentiality agreements, and their focused approach can be more effective at maintaining your privacy. They can issue injunctions, serve cease and desist orders, and negotiate with the perpetrator without drawing unnecessary attention to you. A firm with a combined legal and PR approach can control the narrative should any details leak, ensuring that your reputation suffers minimal damage.

They can also advise you on the best course of action tailored to your unique situation, without being bogged down by the bureaucracy that often accompanies police involvement. If you're a high-profile individual, the media landscape surrounding blackmail cases can be just as treacherous as the legal one.

Even a whiff of scandal can fuel tabloid stories, damage your brand, or put your career on hold. When you engage a law firm with PR capabilities, you're not just getting legal advice; you're getting a comprehensive strategy to protect your image on all fronts.

By managing both the legal and public relations aspects of your case, a specialised firm can offer a nuanced and multifaceted approach that law enforcement agencies typically can't provide. Such a comprehensive strategy can be a safer, more discreet way to navigate the murky waters of blackmail threats and maintain your public image.

What if my intimate images are already online? Immediate steps and legal remedies

Discovering that your intimate images or videos have already been uploaded to the internet can induce a sense of helplessness and anxiety. It's a violation of your privacy, and the urge to resolve the matter quickly can be overwhelming. However, it’s essential to know that there are actionable steps you can take, and we are here to guide you through it. If you discover that your intimate images are online, your first action should be to report it to the social media platform or website hosting the content.

Most platforms have guidelines against non-consensual sharing of intimate images and are obliged to take it down. However, removal by the platform could take some time, and meanwhile, your reputation and mental well-being are at stake. Our law firm can act swiftly to identify the source of the uploaded content. By engaging with our specialised team, we can take immediate steps to have the images or videos removed.

Utilising both technology and legal avenues, we strive to ensure that the violation of your privacy is corrected as soon as possible. An injunction isn't just a reactive measure; it can be a proactive one too. Obtaining a privacy injunction can deter not only the individual who uploaded the images but also discourage social media platforms and other website operators from hosting them. The legal repercussions of defying an injunction can be severe, making it a powerful tool in your arsenal.

Taking down the images is just one part of the solution. We can also help you gather evidence for potential legal proceedings, protect you from further victimisation, liaising on your behalf with the police and even assist in repairing your online reputation. Addressing the issue from multiple angles ensures a more holistic solution, tailored to your specific needs.

What if I initially consented to the publication of my intimate images and videos online but later on changed my mind?

A commonly misunderstood aspect of blackmail situations involving intimate images is the concept of consent. You might have originally consented to the taking or even sharing of these images, but it's crucial to know that consent isn't a one-time, irrevocable licence. You have the right to change your mind, and your change of heart has legal implications. In many jurisdictions, your right to privacy continues to exist even after initial consent, meaning you can subsequently withdraw that consent.

Let's say you initially agreed to certain activities and even to the sharing or uploading of the resulting images or videos. But later, you change your mind—whether it's a change in your relationship status, your understanding of the consequences, or simply your comfort level with sharing such personal content. Your revised stance needs to be respected. This right to revoke consent is even more pertinent if you received financial incentives for the initial agreement.

Many people mistakenly think that being paid for content means signing away all future rights to it. This is not true, particularly when it concerns intimate or personal material. The law often recognises the ongoing nature of consent, allowing you to revoke it and take legal actions to prevent further dissemination of your images or videos.

It's not just about morality, which can be subjective; it's about your legal right to control your own personal and intimate information. The moment you say 'no'—regardless of any previous 'yes'—you regain the power to control the narrative, both legally and personally.


Facing the threat of intimate images being disclosed is one of the most stressful situations one can experience in our digital age. However, the worst thing you can do is nothing. There is a wide range of professional and legal support available to you.

While every situation is unique, don't underestimate the power of expert advice and the legal system to help you regain control over your life and your privacy. By taking informed steps, not only can you potentially stop the immediate threat, but you can also regain your sense of agency and mental well-being. Remember, you are not alone; help is out there, and the law is on your side.

Are you a victim of blackmail? Time might be of the essence. Call us now for legal advice on +44 207 183 4123 or send a request and we will contact you as soon as possible.

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